The desire of tagged beautifully as "unique" sometimes drives and compels most of us to work differently and audaciously. If you make the sets on the basis of innumerable grounds, you'll surely fall as the subset or a member in most of those. I used the word innumerable because if you think that you are one of the value falling under 100 types of sets, you may not know that you are also the value of atleast 1000 more types of sets, which you can not imagine despite using your mind 100% efficiency X whole life.
What are the efforts made by cow to become such a talking and debating point of 125 crore natives' country.....?? An animal, who understands none of the languages except mute love, has fitted itself in the category of uniqueness without any effort.
Pollywood when writes the lyrics, they isolate that word, make it fall under the category of uniqueness, record the vision of that from that platform, use that vision and captives to drill inside it (that word), again communicate with those visions, share an invisible bond, disconnect all bonds, mark the spectrogram with that emptiness, then use that spectrogram to write the lyrics.
The common thing between all these is isolation & then join the uniqueness.
I am a little bit worried when some verbal/spiritual philanthropists advocate the fraternity by covering and concealing the diversity by the blanket of a single word "human" to 750 crore people. This is because then you are mere a living creature focusing on a collection of all alike individuals instead of the discovery of self. When we think about human (the whole earth), we expand our boundaries upto the limits which neither can be seen, nor can be covered. When you choose "Hinduism" (let a country), you can clearly see boundaries and the division. Yet, those boundaries are covering the territory whose boundaries can be traveled in that much of time in which you may give-up the idea to travel. Again, when you contract yourself to "Bramhan" (let a state), boundaries can be seen, can be covered, but the rush is so high, that environment is polluted. Again you contract, this time of "Mishra" (let a district), everything is cool, but you are just a living creature whose face even can't be remembered by that locality tagged as "Mishras". You kept on shrinking, and finally reached to room, where there are only 2 people. Now, though you have identified and segregated yourself so much that you can give an address of yourself. Between two people, only comparison can be made, not the study. So, you expelled that room-mate too. Now, you are completely isolated. The TV of that room is also isolated, the walls are isolated, every commodity is isolated like you in this world. What next...?? Finding how and why are you different amongst all those isolated items. This is called discovering uniqueness. Being unique is very easy and require no serious attempt except the first step-isolation. Isolation means finding yourself at a place the address of which is so clear and loud that you can not be identified by the face, but only by the personality. For this isolation, don't start keeping away yourself by physical or mental efforts by running. Just divide the world upto so much for yourself that the boundaries shrink upto the limit which cover a territory-the size of which is not the question, but depending upon your convenience with the only aim and answer-isolation.
Until you have not discovered the uniqueness for you, you can't see the others by the eyes of uniqueness. In that case, you would only judge the others by following the segregation. Again, you eyes would be cheated and the task for other sense organs would be so complex that mind will never achieve peace.